Quote from: CGQuarterly on 07/16/2016, 11:38 AMI have no problem with anyone disagreeing with me. Just be polite when doing so. After so many times of going back and forth with him and one other in there I unfortunately had enough and fed some back. That, admittedly, caused me to react the way I did in here. I read this whole thread the way you say you read mine. The way a few people treat others around here is more than just "dissenting opinions," and that may unfortunately be many people's first impressions of a forum. In my thread, I tried to end the argument and smooth things over a couple times with Zeta. It was never acknowledged.Quote from: OC2010 on 07/16/2016, 09:44 AMI have no idea who you are since I barely pay attention around here anymore, but I went back and read your Duo-R thread. You need to either grow a thicker skin or stick to over-moderated forums like NintendoAge and Sega-16 or the "retrogaming" areas of Reddit. When you come to a forum and lay out your plans for doing something, people are going to have dissenting opinions. When you come here and tell us that you're going to spend $1000+ on a Turbo-Duo setup, while using a Retro Freak for everything else because you want to "start collecting retro games", you're going to get dissenting opinions.Quote from: guest on 07/13/2016, 12:21 PMI'm not trying to say it wasn't cruel or that it was totally appropriate, just that it was within the rules. It may be 'wrong' in terms of some community standards, sure, but is it worse than the constant sex jokes, misogyny, mental handicap jibes, or telling people to go fuck themselves simply because they asked too high of a price? I think not. The bar isn't set that high here, but y'all are free to petition for rules changes.Well... Just what a forum full of people that get upset over just about anything they don't agree with needs: A moderator who tries to justify his own douche-baggery!
I don't get what makes people in here so much like angst-ridden teenagers... And I know all about that... I teach them 9 months out of the year.
I got attacked plenty in my first few days here. All I did was be nice to people and when confronted shared about myself and my reasoning for what I was doing. What did I get? A middle finger basically in my face and a few more insults on the side from a few who seem to think the only way to tell someone there is a better way, or a different way to do things, is to insult them as much as possible. Children do that. Grow up.
By the way... That was no attack. That was "life advice." I have high schoolers that display more empathy and character than some I have already met in here. Maybe I would petition about the rules if I believed that anything would be done about them. The last time anyone posted in THAT thread was 2008, I think!
Zeta is never nice, but he is often wise. True to his form, he came off much more harshly than he needed to in that thread, but I agree with almost everything that he said.
I wonder sometimes if a society (like this forum) just gets so used to people acting rudely that they don't even notice or they just shrug it off. But, you have now had 2 new people in here, as well as others, having issue with how people have treated others in just the past few days. Maybe some things that have become cultural norms should change? Perhaps the ones with dissenting opinions about how people should be treated should be listened to as well?
If not... Maybe you are right. Maybe this is not where I should be. I don't need to develop a "thicker skin." I have a very strong opinion on how people should be treated. That opinion does not stop before myself, and I will fervently defend others as I would defend myself. Obviously, I am not ashamed to defend myself when I feel attacked. I admit that I have not been perfect. But I will always admit that I have been wrong and apologize if I have done something that is hurtful to another. If I have done so, please point it out and I will try my best to reconcile. But I won't break my back over it if the other party won't listen.
I may not completely agree with you, but I do appreciate your willingness to not attack me in the process of disagreeing with me. Thank you. I hope you feel that I have been respectful to you as well.